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THE SELF-RELATIONSHIP PRACTICE
September 2026: LOCATE
Can I find myself before I respond?
A month-long guided practice in learning to recognize where you are before responding to everything and everyone around you.
September enrollment is open · $88 · Month-to-month
You probably already know a lot about yourself.
You may understand your patterns. Know where you people-please. Recognize when you're overthinking. Know you need better boundaries. Maybe you've spent years learning, healing, reflecting, meditating, or working on yourself.
And yet...
Yes, you know what you think—until someone disagrees.
Yes, you know what you want—until someone wants something different.
Yes, you understand your patterns—but still find yourself repeating them.
Yes, you make a decision—and immediately start questioning it.
The understanding is there. But when something real enters the picture, the intent doesn't always hold.
That's where we practice.
Before deciding what to do, what to say, what something means, or what someone else needs from us, we practice something simpler: Can I find myself first?
What is the Self-Relationship Practice?
It is a space for practicing what we often already understand. Instead of asking What should I do? first, we begin somewhere else:
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Where am I in this?
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What am I actually feeling?
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What do I know?
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What do I need?
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What am I responding to?
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What changed when another person entered the picture?
We practice finding ourselves inside ordinary situations and allowing what we find to become real enough to work with.
Over time, understanding becomes something we can actually live.
I call that translation—the movement between what we know about ourselves and how we actually live.
Why practice?
Because understanding something doesn't necessarily change what happens when life gets involved.
Knowing that you people-please doesn't necessarily help you find yourself when someone is disappointed in you.
Knowing that you overthink doesn't necessarily help when a decision has to be made.
Knowing that you need boundaries doesn't necessarily mean you can feel where the boundary is when another person is standing in front of you.
Practice gives understanding somewhere to "land".
We take what we know and meet it again in real situations, until recognizing ourselves becomes less of an idea and more of a capacity.
*** understanding → translation → lived capacity ***
Why practice together?
Because staying connected to ourselves becomes different when another person enters the picture.
Alone, I may know exactly what I think, feel or want. Relationship introduces difference.
Someone disagrees. Someone needs something. Someone sees it differently. Someone responds in a way I didn't expect.
And that's often where self-relationship becomes harder to hold.
The group gives us somewhere to practice this together: to share what we're noticing, witness one another, ask for reflection, and see how the same practice translates differently into different lives.
How do we practice?
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Weekly live teaching + orientation
Weekly video chats to explore the practice, establish shared language, work through questions, and deepen our understanding together.
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Weekly practice worksheet
A set of questions to take into your own time and, more importantly, into your actual life.
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Shared Telegram practice room
A place to come back to when something happens. Share what you're noticing, ask for reflection, help someone else translate, or simply witness.
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Recordings
Can't attend live? The teaching will be available afterward.
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Month-to-month participation
September is Locate. Stay for the next practice if it continues to feel useful. There is no long-term commitment.
What does participation look like?
Attend everything. Attend nothing.
Do every worksheet. Sit with one question all month.
Read quietly. Post something that happened. Ask for reflection. Witness somebody else. Celebrate something you suddenly noticed.
Leave for a week.
Come back.
There is nothing to catch up on.
The practice isn't happening on Telegram or inside a worksheet.
It's happening in your life.
The group is simply somewhere to return with what you find.
This may be for you if...
...your self-talk sounds something like:
"I don't trust myself."
"I can't decide."
"I keep abandoning myself."
"I overthink everything."
"I know this, but I still keep doing it."
"I don't know what I want."
"I lose myself in relationships."
Or perhaps nothing feels particularly wrong. You simply want to become better at recognizing yourself, trusting what you find, and carrying that into how you actually live.
The person holding the practice
I'm Anca. Beyond Orion has been the place where I’ve explored consciousness, energy, embodiment and what it means to actually live what we come to know about ourselves.
Much of what I teach has come through years of working with people individually, but just as much has come through living it myself. I pay attention. I experiment. I notice what happens in the body, in relationship, in ordinary life—and I stay with questions for a very long time.
I don't hold this practice from a place of having mastered self-relationship. I'm in the practice too. What I do have is a particular ability to notice where something gets lost in translation, to stay with someone there, and to help make the abstract tangible enough that we can work with it.
The Self-Relationship Practice grew out of that way of working. I wanted a place where we could do more than talk about these things—where we could live with them long enough to find out what they actually become in us.
